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TWLOHA: A Mini-Story

Who Cares About Tomorrow? 

I had gotten to a point where I felt I had nothing. 

Nothing to live for. 

Soccer was ripped away from me. My relationship had failed. My family was separating. And I had let go of my faith in Christ. 

Ultimately I had given up on myself.

I didn't know which was was up. And I didn't care if there was a tomorrow. 
I was in pain and couldn't express of explain it. I'm always so happy and full of joy! I've never felt depressed before. 
But because I had the amazing support of my friends I was able to find myself again. They weren't afraid to talk to me about my sadness and pain.
One of my best friends in particular really took it upon herself to help me find my walk again. She doesn't necessarily know it, but she saved my life. Day by day, moment by moment. She didn't give up on me, and that made all the difference. 

My passion for life, my love for The Lord,  my dreams, my spark, and the quirks that made me, me, slowly but surely started resurfacing. Then all at once my smiles were genuine, and the laughter was real. 

Show your friends there's always a light at the end of a dark time. In life there will always be obstacles, but we can choose to see them as stepping stones, not stumbling blocks. 

Have a conversation. Be there for your friends. Self-harm, depression, sadness, loneliness etc deserve the chance to be overcome. You can truly make a difference in someone else's life. Keep the faith and don't lose hope  


My story isn't about suicide, but my hope is at least one person resonates with these emotions and can find help, or feel hopeful.

 And check out TWLOHA.com to seek the resources necessary to help yourself and your friends. September 10th is World Suicide Prevention Day and you can play your part! Whether it's donating, buying a shirt, or having a conversation with a friend, you can use your voice for good.

https://twloha.com/blog/more-than-the-pain/


We'll see you tomorrow. 

Caroline Stanley 

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